Foreplay - it's not just for women

Do girls not enjoy foreplay? No no, I know they enjoy it when they are the center of attention but do they really think sex is all about them? Does the common stereotype that guys are always thinkin about sex (which is true) make them believe they can take the backseat when it’s time to get hot and bothered? I think only about 2 girls have found my “spots”…that’s because the rest of them are just sittin back and enjoying the performance. It’s very annoyin. Some girls won’t even grab the dick until you put their hand on it. Like she doesn’t know that he is the main star of the show. No star performs without some prep first, so what makes this situation any different? Because I’m a guy and I’m “always ready to have sex?” Nonsense. I can see why some guys cheat or jump from girl to girl. I’m not excusing cheating guys or anything, because I’d never wife up a chick that sucked at seduction. But that’s me, I’m not the desperate type and I don’t “need” someone in my life to feel complete. Ladies you gotta do something. Strip tease, ride well, give great head, talk dirty, SOMETHING! You don’t have to do ALL the things I listed, that would make you a whore (I kid, I kid, I kid. Your guy loves you for it). But then again I am a special case…my mind has been ruined by porn. I need heels, stockings, and a public place lmao.